How to Use a Vibrator to Achieve an Orgasm

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orgasm_vibrator (2)Vibrator and Orgasm

It’s true that you can achieve an orgasm through manual work, and you are certainly encouraged to give it try; however, a vibrator provides a whole level of pleasure that you simply can’t give yourself manually – and that’s a fact. Even if you are a super fast finger strummer, a vibrator oscillates so many vibrations per second that it is impossible to outdo. The vibrations from a vibrator are specifically designed to provide you with maximum pleasure and there is very little work you have to do to achieve it. A vibrator is also a great tool to have on those occasions when you only have time for a ‘quickie’ either with yourself or with your partner.

A personal vibrator can help you achieve more powerful orgasms, and that is reason enough for many women to use vibrators. Realistically, the biggest factor to achieving those intense orgasms is by using a vibrator that gives you the kind of stimulation your body actually craves. Whether you orgasm easiest through g-spot stimulation, clitoral stimulation, vaginal penetration, or a combination of all three, your prefect vibrator awaits you. And with so many vibrator options on the market, you’re sure to find the one that fits your needs better than Cinderella’s glass slipper fit her foot.

Vibrators: Which One’s for You

Clitoral – A favorite vibrator to use within this category is the Rabbit. This particular toy can be inserted for vaginal stimulation, but the primary focus is the clitoris. It is great for both beginners and those more experienced with the art of self-pleasuring. It also offers control options for speed and vibration. A great buy for an even better night!

 

G-spot – If you’re looking for a g-spot stimulator, a good one to try is the LELO Gigi. It is specifically designed to fit the interior of the vagina with a wide enough base to perfectly hit the G-spot. It offers controls for speed and vibration to really stimulate the area and make achieving a vaginal orgasm a lot easier and more pleasurable!

 

Dual – Some women would like to achieve both a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm simultaneously. Fear not, for there are products available to accommodate that desire. A popular product is the Vibratex Snugglepuss. This vibrator offers dual motors so that you can stimulate both the clitoris and the g-spot at the same time. With so many sensations happening at once, you’re bound to have the most exquisite orgasm of your entire life. It’s definitely a must-have for your self-pleasuring collection!

 

Note: You can also buy anal vibrators. These are great for experimenting with anal play or simply practicing with an object other than your partner’s penis. The best thing you can do to make the experience more comfortable and enjoyable is to use plenty of lube.

When considering an anal vibrator, look into getting a slimmer model as opposed to a wider one. This will go a long way in making you more comfortable and helping you experience the most pleasure possible.

Self-Pleasure Techniques Using a Vibrator

So far we’ve talked about clitoral and vaginal orgasms, what they feel like, and the best toys to use to achieve them. Now let’s look at some techniques that can be used to help you achieve the orgasm you’ve always dreamed of!

Self-Pleasure Technique:

Clitoral Stimulation for an Intense Orgasm

For those of you who achieve orgasm by clitoral stimulation, this technique is more suited to you. There are several ways you can begin to stimulate your clitoris and it really is a matter of preference. You can lay the vibrator directly over the clitoris and simply let the vibrations do all the work while you sit back and enjoy the roller coaster of sexual pleasure. You can also take this one step further and adjust the vibrator’s speed back and forth to really give your orgasm a boost.

While those techniques are great for the quickies, there are also things you can do to achieve more intense orgasms and take your time doing so. If you’re like most women, you want what you can’t have. That being said, tease yourself instead of going in and finishing yourself off quickly. Start the vibrations on the outside of the vulva and roll it around. You can run the vibrator over various other body parts (such as your nipples) to really get your juices flowing. Return to your vulva and increase the speed and pressure a little as you run it over the surface. Once you feel a pleasant tingle, apply the vibrator to the clitoris.

 

Depending on how sensitive you are, you may feel your inner thighs tremble. That’s a good thing; it means you’re enjoying the sensations.

 

Don’t just hold the vibrator directly over the clitoris, though.

Move it around, teasing the clitoris. Do figure eights around it, run the vibrator from the vaginal opening (do not insert it at this point) to the bottom of the clitoris and then move around to the top of the clitoris.

 

As you do this, you should be feeling the tension build within your body. To get a really intense orgasm, stop just before you’re about to  orgasm. Return the vibrator to your nipples and give your clitoris a moment to rest. This is going to take some patience on your part, but you can do it!

 

Once you feel the ebb of the orgasm fall back a little, begin the process all over again. Repeat this as many times as you can. Usually after just a few times, you physically can’t hold back the orgasm and when it comes, it will most likely make your toes curl!

 

Self-Pleasure Technique:

G-spot Vibrators Will Definitely Hit the Right SPOT!

Vaginal vibrators may look very similar to clitoral vibrators and each can be used for the purposes of the other.

However, a true vaginal vibrator has a slight curve at the end designed to stimulate the G-spot. Begin this technique as you would the clitoral; slowly and building to a state of excitement.

 

As the name indicates, this vibrator is intended to be inserted into the vagina, so when you’re ready to do so, insert the vibrator. Hold it within the first couple of inches (the most sensitive part of the vagina) and play with the varying speeds. Once you’ve stimulated yourself, lightly push it in further.

 

Now, the curve at the end of the vibrator should be in line with the curve of your vagina to help you locate the g-spot. This may take some maneuvering if you’ve never found it before, but it’s about 3-4 inches back along the top of the vaginal wall (facing your bellybutton). Slowly glide the vibrator back, applying a light pressure to the vaginal wall as you go.

The g-spot is stimulated by direct pressure rather than a simple back and forth motion. This is primarily because of the dense tissue that tends to cover it, but it is also made of different tissue than the clitoris, so it will be stimulated differently.

 

Once you’ve found the g-spot, apply a steady, direct pressure to the area and trace around it in small circles. Continue until you reach your orgasm. There is not much need to use the ‘start and stop’ technique with this one because it already takes a good deal of work to stimulate the area. When you achieve the orgasm, you’ll feel as though it were well-earned (and just as well savored!).

 

Self-Pleasure Technique:

 

Dual Vibrators Bring Twice the Pleasure and Fun!

 

Dual vibrators usually have an unusual shape to them because they are designed to be inserted into the vagina while also stimulating the clitoris. There’s not much of a technique associated with this particular vibrator other than enjoying the sensations. Most dual vibrators come with two motors, so while one end is massaging the G-spot, the other is tickling the clitoris. It may be of some help to think of an erotic fantasy with you as the star, just for a little extra “oomph” to your orgasm.

 

Ladies with your vibrator in hand, enjoy applying all you’ve learned!
Learning how to masturbate is simple and it really provides so many benefits that often go unsaid. It is difficult to tell a partner what pleases you if you don’t know. It is unfair to expect them to find out if you aren’t even willing to do so for yourself. Many sex experts suggest that female self-pleasuring helps increase your libido, practice safe sex while in between relationships, avoid diseases, and just provide an overall feeling of well-being.

Having a healthy sex drive is part of your overall health and wellness, and when you enjoy the pleasures of masturbation it will keep you healthy and happy, both in and out of bedroom.